Sunday, 3 March 2013

first post, woop!

Here it is. My first post. This blog is for all you boys out there that have no idea when it comes to girls, I won't tell you how to stop the problem but I'll tell you how to fix it, as hopefully you will learn. This blog will vary between boys relations with girls: boyfriend, fuck buddies, best friend, and the poor boy who watches that girl fall for the wrong guy.

My first tip in the guide is how to  fix being over protective and falling out with your girl because of it. The possible senarios are:
She has a really close friend and you don't like it as a boyfriend.
As her best friend you don't want her to get attached to this new boy.
As a fuck buddy, you are probably getting attached to her if this is your problem.
As the poor sucker who is in the love triangle, you are watching his amazing and beautiful girl get close to someone who isn't you.

Firstly,  this will only work if you have fallen out, if not then you will be a complete fool as you will seem as through you have a crystal ball. Boyfriends, be very careful what you say at this stage as she might get more angry with you and get closer to him. Listen carefully and I mean it, you've already told her about how her friend worries you in the relationship so, open your eyes and see what she is like back. Is she flirting? Is she being a good friend? Is she being more of a girlfriend to him then you? If she is flirting then sit her down and ask her "If I was like you with your friend, with another girl, would you be upset or annoyed at me?" Hopefully, she will say yes and it'll all be on the way back to repair, if she says no, follow the steps below:
1. Give her more and more attention.
2. Give her compliments that will never be matched by any one else
3. Get soppy, tell her your favourite memory between you two and be deep and meaningful.
4. Have some quality time, no phones, no laptops, just you, her and some where relaxing.